Why does capricorn man keep coming back

We talked about keeping it casual, since we had both broke up recently. But he was very romantic and expressive, showing his affection in public! I fell hard for him and never told him. Then he stopped seeing me, always finding excuses. I felt very hurt. He said his feeling suffocated him, he isn't over his ex, but we could date sparsely.

Is it just lust? I dated a Virgo Sun before! Honestly, nearly every relationship begins with a bit of lust. Assuming he is not a player, he is probably just trying to stick his own morals. He knows that it is going to be very unfair for you to be in a relationship with a guy who still misses his ex. Be wary of the possibility that he might have and could be subconsciously using you as a rebound. The best advice I have for you is to stop seeing each other for a period of time.

Wait until both of you are ready, and completely over your past relationships before you start dating again. If he really likes you, he will remember you and eventually come back to you to offer a long-term, committed relationship.

Anonymous asked: Hey, it's thepisces girl. So I told the guy I didn't want to get in the middle of his relationship and that I was just dropping it and he spazzed out on me and got mad because I "wasted his time" and refused to be with him under the circumstances. I care but I feel like I did the right thing. You deserve someone who is more thoughtful than that, someone who treats you with respect. I am sure you did the right thing.

He asked if we can be friends I said hell no. I deserve more than just your friendship. So I left. But I will never give him the satisfaction of knowing that after how bad he hurt me. He already told me how he felt about this union betwn is. Idk I Wish things were different.

You deserve better than that. I think you should actually tell him how badly he hurt you. You deserve it to yourself to get it off your chest. Perhaps he can make amends with you but at the very least, you can get some closure. I wish you the best darling. You deserve it! Hi, I was dating a cap for 9 months we where serious about each other I was considered his girlfriend.

It does sound like he was looking for an excuse as to what sounds best for not keeping it together. Unfortunately it seems he found one. Hi there! I am a Cancer. I met my Capricorn bf at my sisters wedding.

He happened to be the wedding photographer who noticed me and I noticed him. It was an instant attraction. People around us noticed that there was this energy between he and I. At the time I had a bf and the relationship was already going no where. My Cap knew this btw. As the wedding day ended he sent my sister an email thanking her for everything and in closing wanted to get the message to me to say Hello. Long story short, my sister gave me the message and I reached out to him via Facebook messenger and since than we were inseparable.

Calling texting video chat. Oh btw we are several states away. So after a couple of mths of this non stop he came down and oh my gosh!

Least to say when we got together It was blissful! He wanted to marry me , claimed he was bad at long distance relationships and knew what he wanted.

He wanted to plan out or quick wedding and take over paying my bills. I was a bit hesitant cause I hardly knew him physically. But he insisted and wanted to help and get everything set up for us to start our lives together. He gave me his credit card to use but I had to ask him first before using it. I wanted to give it back to him but he insisted on me having it just in case cause he was too far to take care of me. He made me feel taking care of.

He was always there for me even from afar. As him being a business owner so come the stresses of the job. I was the one who ended it sadly. I was paying all my stuff before I met him. This stressed me out beyond and my anxiety was off the charts when I would hear him complain. So he would complain and than pay my bills and I would feel like crap. I never quite cut off communication with him. I fell in love with him and he was absolutely crushed that I ended it.

We just needed some time and space and it took him a little time to gather his thoughts whether he wanted to try Us out again it was several weeks of hot and cold with him. I never gave up on him. I was patient and let him say what he had to say even if it hurt but I also told him what I wanted and whether he wanted it our not. He finally let go and now making plans again for our future. I absolutely love him and I keep thinking of what brought Us together. The feelings the energy that we have for each other is so magical.

It sounds like you figured each other out. How wonderful! I am so very glad to hear that you knew what needed to be done and you two were able to talk about everything. Good for you! Thank you for sharing your success story! Virgo Woman crushing on a Capricorn who found me in a Singles group. We connected rather quickly, texting and calls all day.

He is a single living in another State. We met June 26th, and by July 2nd he stated ge was being transparent with me and wanted to pursue a relationship with me. I agreed with him.

The connection and conversations were beautiful. ON July 3rd, he was in awe at how much he was feeling me and attracted to me in every way. By July 4th and 5th we were down to a few texts and him not responding. I text on the 6th, because he had mentioned he was sick, I kept very brief, no response. My last reach out to him was on tbe 12th acknowledging that I was being respectful of his need to isolate, that I missed him and our conversations.

I ended the text on a positive note. Does race play a part in the zodiac signs? Should I continue to wait and see if he returns , or cut my losses? It seems all that I have read from other women the men generally returns as if nothing has happened, but in some cases not. It keeps him busy and maybe even overwhelmed. Hang in there!

I cant believe I am posting. I am facing heart break right now. I am a scorpio woman who was dating a cap man for a year and 5 months. The thing is I did not even like him in the beginning. A co worker of ours kinda made us come together and actually talk. He was really nice to be around and talk too. We started seeing each other every weekend due to our heavy work schedule. We were so infatuated with one another. Even talked about eloping.

Things started to slow down and time spent was no longer every weekend. We talked about moving in together but then we agreed to live separately another year. I forgot to mention I have two sons 16 and 7 and he doesnt have any so we wanted to make sure we did it right. Fast fwd we werent the same anymore. It was confusing.

He asked me out on a date and I was so happy…I felt like it was our first date all over again I even was nervous. There was an hr and a half wait for our table so he turns to me and ask do u want to go look at houses…I smiled and was like whaaattt u wanna go look at houses lol…we went and we both were all into it. In my mind I was like ok we are getting on track.

We went to dinner and it was lovely. Two days later we were talking on the phone about what we can work on and how I rate him and him me. We laughed then it got wired.

He said I know we talk about moving in and our future and so we have to be mindful on how we do things because you have a delicate situation. I said I know the boys…then out of nowhere he says I dont want to get married.

I cried…I asked him well what are we doing then…he said I dont know…I got quiet again…I told him…maybe marriage isnt for everyone and we can work through this and still have a healthy relationship….

I told him its my life and my decision and I want to do this with u. He could not handle it he did not believe me…he told me I was honest about how I feel about dating with a purpose and all of a sudden I am willing to change all that for him. He said its not my core values to just accept. This killed me…. I gave it space in-between those days.

We are now going on week 3 and I really feel I lost my love because I opened my big mouth and wanted to have some morals about myself. I want to show him this is where I want to be but reading all the comments about making things work with a Capricorn is leaving me to feel hopeless at this point. With you to on different pages, you need to find a way to be on the same one.

You should focus on the now and not so much in the future. Try to work through the present and see where things lead you two naturally. I finally contacted him saying we should talk and he agreed. He seemed like he had his mind made up and I told him not to contact me until he was ready to be all in and he never did contact me, but replied when I contacted him. Im wondering if anyone actually got their cap back if he came to you again after he broke up with you. The last time mine did that it only lasted 5 days and he was hasty.

I got an i miss you text, but he says it feels different this time. Maybe there is a misunderstanding between you that simply needs to be talked about. Resurrect the reason you two fell for each other in the first place. Talk about the same things that got you two excited to even communicate at all.

Get back to that and you may still have a chance. Is that why he is reaching out again. From A. My sign leo and his carp man being with him 3 years, he have a lot admires. You Are Ambitious Too 0. You Are Family Oriented 0. You Are A Visionary 0. You Have Your Life Together 0. You Are Disciplined 0. You Are Comfortable Around Him 1. He Already Trust You 1.

You Are Patient With Him 1. Be Kind To Him 2. Support Him 2. Show Your Affection Towards Him. Related Content. Michelle Devani. My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since In I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think. Ending a relationship with someone you still have feelings for is difficult.

And, if your relationship feels more like a revolving door where he keeps coming back and then leaving again, you have to wonder what his reasons are. Why would a seemingly perfect boyfriend, or any guy for that matter, suddenly decide to break off the relationship and then decide to come back for more just a few months later? If it doesn't, you may be stuck wondering what makes one breakup real and another Maybe he keeps texting you during the week, or perhaps he calls you when he needs to make a decision about something big.

So what if this is just a phase that he's going through, and once it's over, you'll be back together for good, rock solid, like you'd hope you'd be? But even if you were expecting it, when he says he changed his mind, it can be confusing.

How do you know if he really is clear on what he wants npw, especially when he says that he what he wants is you. And coming back to you once is one thing, but when a guy keeps coming back after breaking up with you again and again, it can be even more confusing to deal with.

Fortunately, understanding more about the traits and characteristics of a guy's zodiac sign can help you to figure the puzzle out. By learning more about his zodiac sign, you'll be able to focus in on some of the most likely reasons why he keeps coming back to you. This will help you make a wise decision about whether you should take him back or refuse to be tempted by him again and simply move on. Aries is a fire sign, which means that he is one of the most passionate zodiac signs there is.

So needless to say, his fiery side can be pretty intoxicating — you know, the side he only shows off completely in the bedroom.